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When you raise a girl, you are mining her to be a successful woman and a strong wife, but you are eager to become an independent woman capable of assuming responsibilities and coping with the difficulties of life. Here are a few ways to help boost your child's self-confidence and sense of responsibility.

Origins of dealing

The girl acquires the basic values and principles of dealing and acting in different situations of life from home, especially from her mother, who communicate with her all the time before entering school.

Mind records details

Thus, the mother must be careful about her actions and be an example of her daughters even if they are at a very young age. The child, who is three years old, notices everything that takes place around her, her small mind records the events and pays attention to simple details that the mother can ignore.

Self-reliance

Self-reliance is a very important key to achieving independence and thus assuming responsibility and not being afraid to face the consequences of failure. This is by training the girl on simple things such as arranging her room or choosing her clothes alone or paying good attention to her goals and not wasting her easily if she asks her sister or boyfriend for example.

Away from selfishness

This does not mean that the girl is selfish. Her friends can play with her for a long time with her toys, but they will not get what she owns. The goal of this step is to urge her to defend her property. Later, this character will continue to be empowered to defend the future. Its convictions, its decisions and its positions, and not to bow or submit when exposed to the simplest pressures.

Confidence in capabilities

In order to enhance the girl's self-confidence, the mother must give her specific tasks and trust her ability to do them. Do not criticize her, but steer her calmly, lovingly and eagerly. If the experience fails, it is a lesson that she learned from her, knowing full well that there are consequences for her wrong work. And that it will not deteriorate in the future unless it is directed.

If successful, the mother must congratulate her and express her pride and happiness, increase the responsibilities she has entrusted to her, and will notice over time that her sense of responsibility increases.

Limits of the Auctioneer

It is true that you see your daughter as a child and she is spoiled and you want to help her with everything she needs and give her everything she wants, but in this way you do not help her to create a strong and independent personality. On the contrary, she transforms her into a weak and personal girl. All this means that there are limits to the auctioneer.

Excessive fear

This is not easy at all and requires strong will. The mother always feels that it is her duty to protect her daughter and help her, but she does not know that in this way she prevents her from experience and learning and deprives her of seeing life as it is. The work was surprised by the amount of problems it had to face alone.